I'll let her brothers do the dirty work. My 4 year old asked for a slingshot to shot her boyfriends with and my 2 year old is slightly psychotic and in the 98th percentile in height and weight for his age
Dad's gun collection will be plan B. I doubt many kids get past plan A though. Them boys are going to have some fun.
Everyone talking about kids makes me want to have number 2. Unfortunately, my wife had too many complications during the labor/delivery process for us to take a chance on having a second one.
We have a fairly high risk of another trisomy 13 (especially as wife gets into her mid 30's) so we likely won't have another on our own. But adoption is definitely in our future. There are so many kids and babies out there that need parents. It's not for everyone, but it's something to think about.
I've got one you can have. Barely used, 14 month early onset 2shbag, blue eyed male. Currently with hand foot and mouth, teething and impetigo. PM for inquiries.
My wife had severe complications during the birth of our first. Number #2 was smooth and easy. We had a miscarriage, then #3 came along pretty much immediately.
The minute #2 was out of the oven and we knew he was mostly OK (he is my son, so he will never truly be "OK"), I made an appointment and got taken care of. We were both done.
Congrats! My #1 girl (and #1 baby) just turned three months old on Friday. She's wonderful (except when she's not).
Adoption is definitely something we've discussed. We'll wait until our son is a little older before we do anything, though. If she won't let you get clipped, then piihb until she changes her mind.